Friday, April 24, 2009

PRESCHOOLS

Have a mother, who has completed a master's degree, has come after the child psychologist for consultation.The result at the age of three years, the motor ability of children considered to be equivalent to a child who is less than two years.

"How might our children behind? How careless psychologists taking such a conclusion?" said a mother in the workroom. "Do not, do not, psychologists, students who used the nick in the Out-Droup with a mediocre GPA. Why should we believe?" said the mother shed a sense of sorts.

Couples that come to the trauma psychologist. Visits and consultations only take place once the course. The mother did not need to assume any therapy, because the only problem is that his son carried gingerly. Not a serious problem, so the mother thought.

Time running, The mother continues to wrestle with the rush and the children are grown under the care of baby sitters are always eager to explore channels for the tv channel. He grew up behind the walls of her house is always locked the meeting.

At the time of pre-school age children the school will be included in the Preschool. Then brought the child to see the school but the children reject it. Rejection is considered as reasonable. Moreover, the first father and the mother was also never kindergarten school.

Was time the children enter elementary school. Terms entrance to the school the child must be in its maturity test must be met so that the psychologist again. Test on the maturity of the child in the mother and father did not want the schools. From the results of the test revealed that the child can not receive incoming primary school. That the children are and can not socialize. The parents try membawannya to another school, but the results were no schools that would receive them. There are suggestions that his son disekolahkan in special schools. Finally, the new mother feel restless.

This is an irony. Someone who did not realize that the higher the education the child is not starting at the elementary school. And children's education is not the instant case. He just did not realize that before memeasuki formal education in schools, a child needs to prepare mentally and emotionally. Fall love, fall-care, soft soap, will be the basic element which is very important.

Home should be a place of education in pre hone emotional skills. However, the situation at home is often less feasible. Father and mother who is busy or less understand the concept of pre education, the less educated nanny, inadequate facilities, and lack of friends to mingle and socialize practice.

I hope this experience can be lessons for us all. At this time children can still be formed and adapted to the social atmosphere, where he is in the push and dibiasakan to think. At the time this is the intellectual child experiencing very rapid growth which will never experience again in the next.

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